Sunday, October 7, 2012
To what extent of flirting is going to damn far while in a relationship. I think as humans we are natural flirts...whether is genuine interest or just to past time. Sometimes it's conscience and sometimes sub-conscience. But at what level is it going to far and it's disrespectful to the one you are committed to. Also, what kind of phone/text conversations should you be having (if any) with one of your flirtees?
Call me insecure, crazy, immature or what the fuck ever. I don't think you should be having flirty conversations and relationships on the regular while you are in a relationship. You can have friends and shit, but people who are trying to fuck you are not your friends. I wish someone would help me drill this shit into D-Boy's head. Like, damn dude...leave the hoes alone.
He feels he has to be "Nice" to everybody and be their friend. He thinks it's rude to just cut people off, even after they disrespect your relationship. Hell, he has gotten on me about cutting people off. I just have a no non-sense attitude when it comes down to this type of shit. If you are in a relationship, its some shit you have to ease up on. I know its not gonna stop completely, cause I still do it. But when it comes to flirting with someone, or some people, becoming a main part of your day...its time to chill on that shit.
I'm sure I'm coming off insecure to some, but that's not the case. I just find it disrespectful to carry on a flirty conversation while with someone. Maybe I need to grow up....or maybe I shouldn't have chosen someone that so many women still find attractive. I should just be with a queen, so women won't be interested in them. But then I won't be interested in them, so....this shit is just a LOSE-LOSE!!! LoL
What is it with these bitches and this sense of entitlement to every-damn-thing in the world. I see it more and more now...from co-workers to classmates to my own damn family. Women really feel they deserve the world, just because they're alive...and don't have to give anything in return.
I am aware of the old stereotypes of women being materialistic and all that shit, but its getting out of hand. They really feel a man is supposed to give, give, and give and that is his only purpose. It's really starting to piss me off. Now, I don't date women...and know I know why! Lol
I had to get on my cousin the other day about this shit. She is really like my sister, but I had to get her straight on something. She has an excellent boyfriend, who is a good guy and will do anything for her. However, she sometimes takes advantage of him...in my opinion. He's still in school (last semester) and he works, so his income is limited. She, on the other hand, is a night cardiac ICU nurse. She always expects something from him everytime he has a dollar in is pocket. When he gets paid, she wants a purse, has to go out to eat...or something . If he says he's running low on funds, and she wants to go out to eat....she just says she doesn't want to go anymore. Like her ass can't afford it.
Also, I see it everywhere I go. At work, a group of us always go to lunch together (2 guys, and 2 ladies). We went to the cafeteria just the other day, and the lady working at the register made the comment "Ya'll aren't taking care of the women's meal?" I gave her the dumbest of looks. Why, just because they are women, did she feel we were obligated to pay for her meal? Another example: My homeboy just got any upgrade on his phone, his friends little sister asked him for his old iPhone 4. He said sure, for a $150. Its still practically new. She got offended and said how does he look asking a woman to pay for a phone.
I'm a male, who dates other males...and I'm of the bottom persuasion. I don't expect a dude I'm with to take care of everything just because he's fucking me. Hell, its the best economy right now and no one wants to give away all of their money. Now granted, I literally have to fight D over this...I just don't agree with it. I can take care of myself, I don't need shit from him. It's nice to have a guy do nice things every once in a while...but not have a sense of entitlement to everything.
These bitches have lost their mind.